You are not here to endure.You are here to return.
Choosing Me reveals how the performing self, the identity built through adaptation, expectation, and survival, keeps you from living as your authentic self.
The performing self was a survival strategy, not your identity.
It protected you. It helped you survive. But it was never meant to be the life you live. Honor what it did. Release what it costs.
The PIPES Effectiveness Map™
What is resourcing you, and what is quietly draining you?
Name one goal. Explore five areas of your life. See where your energy is being supported, depleted, dominated, or held in what has not yet been released.
Take the six-minute mapYour complete interpretation will be emailed to you.
This area is supporting your goal.
This area is depleting your energy.
This area is controlling more than it should.
This area holds what is not yet released.
This area is supporting your goal.
See your pattern. Change your pattern. Live from your truth.
Welcome, I’m Dr. Kimberly McLeod.
Professor. Counselor. Executive coach. Organizational leader. Author.
For more than two decades, I’ve helped individuals and organizations navigate identity, belief, change, and the hidden costs of performance.
Choosing Me is the book I needed as much as the ones I’ve served. It is both a mirror and a map, and an invitation to choose yourself without apology.
Learn more about Dr. McLeodA Declaration
I am done abandoning myself.
I choose me.
Not once. Daily. Again and again, until choosing me is simply who I am.